Clued up in Hull : Q & A


	Got a question for Nigel? Nigel Richardson is the director of children and young people’s services at Hull City Council - so he's the man in charge of a whole range of services which affect the lives of 57,000 children and young people that live in Hull. Fill in the form by following the link below, and send it back to Nigel. Visit this page to see the questions that other people are asking and see what Nigel has to say... New questions and answers will be added regularly.

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	Kieran asked "Hi Nigel, I really enjoy the theatre and would like to get to know more about the musical aspects eg. composition, sound effects, as well as the acting and singing. Can you suggest any places that would let me take part in productions?" Ps. I can play 4 instruments competently so I would like to perform instrument wise as well (if it makes any difference) Hi Kieran, you sound like a very talented person and the good news is that there are lots of places in Hull where you can learn more and showcase your talents in musical and/or theatre productions. Here are some good places that you might want to contact: • The Northern Academy of Performing Arts run lots of dance, drama, and musical theatre courses during a school year and do performances too. If you can’t wait until the next school year, they run a really good summer school during the holidays contact them on 01482 310690 or napa@northernacademy.org.uk • Hull Truck Youth Theatre runs termly workshops which cover all aspects of theatre work. You can contact them on 01482 224800 or interact@hulltruck.co.uk • Hull’s Music Service have lots of things going on too at the the Alebemarle Music Centre. You can contact them on 01482 300 300 or musicservice@hullcc.gov.uk • You can also contact Ruth Drake, the Youth Arts worker for Hull, on 01482 300 300. And remember to check out PLINGS (places to go, things to do) area of the Clued Up in Hull website to find out what’s going on every week. Hope you have a good time. Nigel

	Lucy asked "I would like to make and sell things, where do I start?" Hi Lucy, thanks for your question ... it's a good one is that and one many young people like yourself ask on a regular basis ! ... A good place to start is to have a look at the Youth Enterprise pages on the website (you can find them in the Life and Money section)... here you can find out lots of useful info and tips on how to become the next Allan Sugar and useful people to contact about your idea ... best of luck !!"

	Adam asked “Hull needs more youth facilities esspecially in large populated area such as Bransholme, ooo just remembered there knocking them down ooops BAD IDEA !!!!” Hi Adam Barley, thanks for the email and sorry to hear that you think there is not much to do in Hull...have you checked out the plings site, follow the link from Clued Up's homepage. Today it lists 562 things to do in Hull. Its on the home page have a look. In Hull there is a lot of work being done by all partners in youth services and the city is celebrating the news that our bid for capital funding from the Big Lottery MyPlace Fund for a new youth facility in the city has been successful. You might want to contact or join Hull’s Youth Parliament who act as the voice and influence for young people in Hull. You could get involved in exciting things that can let you have a say in what happens in Hull. For more information please contact Hull Youth Council on 01482 585297 or email hullyouthcouncil@hullcc.gov.uk. Nigel

	Julie asked “Advice for a confused parent please - is there a wall in Hull that can be legally used for graffiti art and if so where is it? I've tried 300300 and they directed me to this website.” Hi Julie, it's great to hear from parents. You asked if there was a wall in Hull that can be legally used by young people for graffiti art? At present there is no wall but you might want to contact Hull's Youth Parliament who act as the voice and influence for young people in Hull. Your children could get involved in exciting things that can let them have a say in what happens in Hull. We are also creating some information for the website with the environmental team which will offer guidance for young people about what is legal :) so watch this space!! For more information please contact Hull Youth Council on 01482 585297 or email hullyouthcouncil@hullcc.gov.uk. Nigel

	TJ asked..."Hey, I'm 16 and I'm pritty sure I'm gay but I don't want to be, I know there is nothing I can do to change it but I am feeling very anxious about it. I am finding it impossible to talk to anybody not even my councler and the worst thing is I know everybody would be 100% fine about it. I could even of been in a relonship with somone that I would be very happy with if I wasn't been so stupid about somthing that shouldn't really matter I'm not sure what to do and I've heard about this shout group and I was thinking about going but I'm just very scared to ring them. Appart from this everything else in my life is pritty normal I go to collage I go to work I have loads of freinds I play sports and I do acting and streetdance lessons but latly this whole thing has made me want to just stop doing everything and hide away." Hi TJ, thank you for feeling able to contact me with your question. Remember you are who you are and there’s nothing wrong with that but it’s perfectly normal to feel anxious about it. It’s great that you’re involved in lots of things – you sound like a very busy person! It’s also good that you’ve got loads of friends and a counsellor…these can be a great support if you want them to be. Give yourself time and do things when you’re ready, talk to your counsellor or other people about how you’re feeling when you feel ready to do so. The Shout Group is a safe and confidential group for people aged 14 – 25. They meet every week at the Warren (opposite Queens Gardens and the BBC building) – you can contact Lou on (01482) 218115 for more details about when they meet. Remember you’re not alone and there are lots of people who feel like you do and can help you. On our site there are other support groups that may be of use to you too. Nigel

	George asked... "did you have a nice christams...and di you watch dr who?" Hi George. Thanks for getting in touch. I had a really nice Christmas with my family - thanks for asking. I hope you did as well. I did watch Dr Who and I'm looking forward to seeing what the new Doctor's going to be like. Nigel

	Andy asked..."When does wolfreton school break up in february?, ivlooked on the site but cnt seem to find it." Hi Andy, thanks for your question. Wolfreton School breaks up on 12/02/10 for half term and goes back on 22/02/10. Have a great week and don't forget to look at the events diary and PLINGS to see all the brilliant events and activities going on in Hull you might want to join in.

	Kieran asked ‘how old b4 i can baby sit?’ Hi Kieran, have a look at the Children's Law Centre website to find out about the law on babysitting. Also, there are babysitting courses going on across Hull where you can get tips to help you. Have a look at the PLINGS pages to find out more. Good luck! Nigel

	Keren asked "im looking for a local football team for my 4 almost 5 year old son Jude. we are located east hull . we cant do sat mornings." Hello Keren Thank you for your request for information about football activities in the East area.We have Football at Lambwath and Football at Dorchester Rd Astroturf Pavilion listed as possibilities. However, to confirm these are suitable for your requirements and for further details please contact 799070. If no one is there when you ring, please leave your name and telephone number and I am confident they will contact you as soon as possible. Nigel

	Megan asked "why dont we run any free fairs like hull fair during the summer holidays i no that hull fair is nt free but it would be good entertainment for all ages you can win prizes their is fairground rides so why are we the most boring city ????!!!!" Hello Megan, thank you for your email and the suggestion. I wonder have you looked on the website for summer activities. There are many exciting things to do in Hull and to meet new friends. Nigel ☺

	Chantelle asked “how many years have you been working for the enviromont?” Hi Chantelle, I’ve been the director of children and young people’s services at Hull City Council for a number of years. My job means I’m in charge of a whole range of services which affect the lives of children and young people that live in Hull. Nigel ☺

	Andre asked “hello nigel. this is a great site. anyway, do you pefer conservatives, laubors or liberals?" Hi Andre, thanks for your question. I’m sure all parties and candidates want to do the best for children and young people and help to improve their lives. It’s good to see you’re interested in politics. The European elections are taking place in June 2009 so why don’t you look online to see what the different parties want to do for Hull if they get elected. Nigel ☺

	Jonathon asked “why cant we have iphones in school???” Hi Jonathon, when you’re at school it’s important that you concentrate and listen to your teachers so that you can learn all the things that they try to teach you. Nigel ☺

	Sondos asked ‘where is clued up?’ Hi Sondos, Clued Up is everywhere!! We’re based at Brunswick House, where the children and young people services are, but we are also at lots of other places around Hull. Hope that answers your question. Nigel ☺

	Andre asked ‘do you like doctor who?its my favorout' Hi Andre, thanks for your question. I’ve been a fan of Doctor Who for a long time and still enjoy it. My sons are big fans too. Nigel ☺

	Andre asked "can you recomend me some good places in hull for children" Hi Andre Thanks for your email and yes there is indeed lots of fun places to go and things to do in Hull. Why don't you check out our events diary that will let you know what's happening !! Nigel ☺

	Lily asked "what time do they start letting people in at Hull arena on the saturday night disco?" Hi Lily, thanks for your email. I am pleased to let you know that you can get into the arena anywhere between 7.30 and 7.45pm ... Hope this helps!! Nigel ☺

	Sammy asked "Hello. Please could you add the Scouts to the website? I've been a member at St Martins Scout Group in Hull (www.stmartinsscouts.moonfruit.com) for over a year and it's great fun.I have had the opportunity to take part in a range of adventurous activities from rock climbing to zorbing (been pushed down a hill in a great big inflatable ball) and would recommend it to anyone wanting to try new and exciting experiences. Thanks very much, Sammy" Hi Sammy That's great to hear that you enjoy all the fun activities at the scouts and I can certainly arrange for the scouts details to be added to the website. Nigel ☺

	Nathan asked "when do schools braek up for ester" Hi Nathan, schools in Hull break up for Easter Friday 3 April and return Tuesday 21 April 2009. Nigel ☺

	Kerry asked “i have been on the comtetion page ..i would like to win a wii for my sister. can you help as we cant get one...my mum said they cost to much and she have to tighen her purse....my best friend has one and we play on it all the time...” Hi Kerry, thanks for your email ... That's really nice you would like to win a wii for your sister ... I might not be able to buy you one but I can tell you that places like Woodford Youth Zone have lots of interactive games like this on site. Also lots of youth clubs have a wii ... Why not go along to your nearest club and get involved. Good luck!! Nigel

	Jordan asked "i want a you to put some think on about wild life and savin the palnet in hull...is their a club i can join i have a pet dog and cat but i wanna know ablout zoo pets maybe a trantila or goat...or an elephant..can you get one for hull, jordan the man aged 9." Hi Jordan Sounds like you are really into your wildlife eh. Check out the clubs and societies section on the Hull City Council website ... Here you will find some wildlife clubs you maybe intersted in. They may not have an elephant though haha Nigel ☺

	Louis asked "hi nigel i got a tattoo last friday and it is itching and it is getting very annoying not been able to itch at it do you know of anything or any cream that will stop the itching or ease it wb asap thanx" Hi Louis Thanks for your email ... Tattoos can often become very itchy as part of the healing process. Some people can have a mild allergic reaction with the ink of the tatoo; it may feel itchy at times, especially if it is exposed to sunlight. If it gets worse you may need to goto your GP for further advice. Best of luck Nigel ☺

	David asked "how come i have to pay a lot to go to ice skate..can you get it cheaper for us for at weekend...my dad has lost his job and i am worrieed that he will say i cant go but if you fix it for cheaper then he wont say that and then we will all be happy." Hi David Thanks for your email and I am pleased to let you know that you may want to look at getting a youth tonic card which entitles you to cheaper skating. Check out ice skating on the Hull City Council website for more detail. Best of luck, Nigel ☺

	Kara asked "well you said on the leaflet tilbury primary school had to fill in from the hull city council you said the new school which is going to be tilbury and bethune primary school will be all as one school so tilbury and bethune will be knocked down and you said that 420 pupils will or around there will be at that school and so i thought that it would have to be a huge school and you would have to put maybe like yr 1a and yr1b and the classes could go like that and also i wonder what the two schools will be built back in to." Hi Kara Thank you for your question about our idea to replace Tilbury and Bethune Park Primary schools with a brand new school. If people agree with the idea the new school will be for 420 children on a new site where we can build a really special new school. This may sound big, but we think it is still small enough to feel friendly and yet will give its children the chance to learn new things in new ways. The number of children in each class will be about the same as now, but with more space, new equipment and some different, exciting areas to learn in as well as new indoor and outdoor play areas. If we are allowed to build the new school we will not need to keep the 2 school buildings we now have (Tilbury and Bethune buildings). We think we will replace the Bethune school with some new sports pitches and will find other ways to use the Tilbury building, like keeping the children's centre and getting other people who support children and families to work from there. But we're still looking for ideas so if you or your friends have any good ones please let me know. Thank you again for your question and please get in touch if you have any more you want to ask or find out about. Nigel ☺

	"We've just found out chill out is gonna shut by 31 march if they cant get any more funding. I go there all the time and they have helped me and my girlfriend loads. can you not give them funding coz we like our club and won't have enywhere else to go coz were too old for other clubs (we are 17) and other clubs treat us like kids. if not well get into truble all the time coz we havnt got owt else to do" Hi Charlie, Glen, Ashley, Hayley and Sammy Thank you for your questions. I understand your concerns about Chill Out. Two of my officers are meeting with Paul Spooner from Chill Out later this week. They will be talking about how we can work together to try to keep going the support which you get from Chill Out. Nigel ☺

	Shannon asked hi...err...how old do u have to be to move out of your mum and dads house because my boyfriend and i were thinking and im only 13.....when can we get our own place together? Hi Shannon Thanks for your email. It is normal for young people to want their independence especially when you meet someone you like and want to be with. However, to have your own place to live you must be over the age of 16 and even then you may need support from some other people. It is difficult having your own place, there are bills to pay, washing to do and trying to keep the place tidy, so its not as exciting as you may think. If you feel you can it might be worth speaking with your mum and dad and letting them know how you feel, or you may want to speak with someone who you know well, maybe a teacher, or a youth worker and tell them how you are feeling they may be able to help you understand. Nigel ☺

	Ryan said "you are probably unaware of the growing hull parkour community ages range from around 12 to 20 and we have a lot of people that come and train on a regular basis round the city. We would like to go to gyms around hull to use crashmats and gym equipment, i was wondering if there is any chance of having funding to have a day in a gym?" Hi Ryan It's good to hear you and your mates are busy keeping fit and want to get involved and visit other gyms!! There are quite a few good gyms across Hull, particularly at Ennerdale Leisure Centre, Woodford and Costello Lesiure Centres. All the centres allow young people reduced admission prices with a Tonic Youth Card. Its for young people up to 16 years old and it costs £10 per month and gets you free entry to badminton, squash and table tennis or any other junior activity, from 4pm-6pm Monday to Friday (or 50 per cent discount outside stated times). You can also use it to get: unlimited swimming during public sessions 50 per cent discount on junior gym sessions and casual ice-skating 20 per cent discount on junior golf prices Also you may be thinking of buying your own gym equipment and crashmats ... Have you thought about applying to the Youth Opportuity Fund ?? It's a pot of money, that young people like yourself along with a group of your mates can apply for, to pay for activities and equipment. The next round of applications is out in March 2009 and the form will be available from the Clued up website so watch this space !! Nigel ☺

	Georgia said "is there any thing on this syt to help deal with deaths? because ii have lost 2 family members the past month and ii dnt realii feel confident talking to any other member of family about it :( x taa georgia Hi Georgia I am very sad to hear of your news at what must be a very difficult time for you. There are a number of websites that help people who have experienced losing loved ones, maybe you would like to visit them and see if they can support you through this difficult time. The ones below are nationwide organisations http://www.childbereavement.org.uk/ http://www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk helpline@cruse.org.uk email address http://www.rd4u.org.uk info@rd4u.org.uk email address If you would like to speak with someone confidentially about the way you feel you might consider contacting the Youth Counselling Support Service. They can be contacted on 331000 and they are based at Stonefield House in the City Centre. You can always ring to arrange an appointment to meet with a trained counsellor if you wish. I hope this helps you to manage. Nigel ☺

	Daniel said "i would like to see more games on this website" Hi Daniel, Good to hear from you. We're looking into developing the site and including games... so I will feedback your comments...thanks Nigel

	Liam Worthington said "we want more games." Hi Liam Worthington Thanks for writing in to me..just to let you know we are considering games for the site..so keep checking Nigel ☺

	Melissa said "Why does the homework page have nearly no pictures?" Hi Melissa Glad you raised this...I will look into this and see if we can add some more images. The library services are planning to add a lot more information to the home work area in the near future. Nigel ☺

	Danny Stones said "i would like some games on the site and a chat room please" Hi Danny Stones Lots of young people are asking for games and chat room to be added. We are looking at some developments to the site...so keep visiting to see what changes...thanks Nigel ☺

	Lee Lewis asked "could you put a search box so it is easy to get around the site" Hello Lee Lewis... This is a good point and I will raise this with the website people, thanks Nigel ☺

	Daniel Dawson said "i would like to see more games on this website" Hi Daniel Dawson... It's great you had a visit to our site...yes, lots of young people have been telling me we need games and I am listening and so I will raise it for you...thanks Nigel ☺

	Liam asked "i have started to self harm buy cuting the top of my arms and my thighs im normaly happy i no i should tell an adult but i just cant what wrong with me i dont like cuting my self but i keep doing it again and again i whant to stop as i will probaly have a few big scars plese help" Hi Liam I am sorry to hear that you are not happy and are finding it difficult to cope with your anger, I guess it must be really scary for you at the moment and I can appreciate you being worried that people may label you as crazy or mad. However self-harm is often a sign of stress and can be a way of releasing tension or anger as it's a physical pain that you have to deal with rather than an emotional feeling which can be hard to cope with. One way of handling the situation would be to talk to a counsellor who would not judge you or think that you were mad, bad or crazy. The counsellor will listen to you in confidence, in a safe and private space and will support you in exploring your feelings and help you to identify the cause of the problem in order to help you to stop feeling like you want to hurt yourself. You could make a referral directly to the YPSS counselling service by emailing them at counselling.YPSS@hullcc.gov.uk which would be in confidence or you could just email them to have a chat if you still felt that talking directly to someone would be too difficult. Alternatively, you may find it helpful to try some of the following when you are feeling like you might self-harm: Write down your negative feelings on a piece of paper and rip it up. Keep a book or diary of feelings. Do something physical like running or swimming, or making a lot of noise. Call a friend and talk to them. Search this website for further information about self-harm www.mind.org.uk I hope that my response has helped you in some way. Nigel ☺

	Liam asked "youths hang outside myhouse what should i do" Hi Liam Thanks for your email ... sometimes, if you feel safe to do so, its always worth talking to the young people involved and find out a little about them. If the young people are bored you might want to tell them about activities that they could get involved in. If you feel the young people are less approachable, while there is nothing to stop young people generally hanging around certain places and areas, there are laws stopping people causing you or the people you live with a nuisance. Nuisance often includes things such as bullying, harassment, intimidation ... If you feel this is happening to you, you could think about contacting the police or you may wish to contact the local area team. The team you will contact will depend on the area of Hull you live in. You can find more details at www.hullcc.gov.uk and search for area teams. You can also find out about the activities by looking at the Do Something area of Clued Up or visit www.hullcc.gov.uk and search for events. Nigel ☺

	Emilee asked…"Hi Nigel, how many people are found homless in hull?" Hi Emilee Thank you for your question. I am aware that a number of our secondary schools are looking at the issue of homelessness at the moment. The housing service inform us that as of today, we have 250 households who have been accepted as having a need for assistance with housing. This does not mean that the people do not necessarily have somewhere to live but that they are in need of help. Our staff within Children and Young People's Services will be working closely with the people providing support advice and guidance to those people who are homeless. Nigel

	Soph asked "do you like the jonas brothers? if you do I love nick jonas" Hi Soph Yes I certainly do like the Jonas Brothers, I think the song 'a little bit longer is' really catchy. Also I think its great that the three brothers: Kevin Jonas, Joe Jonas, and Nick Jonas all get on so well... ....Nigel ☺

	Cameron asked "Do drugs kil you?" Hi Cameron Thank you for this question. Yes, all types of drugs can cause death. They can do a lot of harm to the body and brain. Drinking alcohol, smoking tobacco, taking illegal drugs, can all cause serious damage to the human body …and sadly many deaths can be caused by the effects that some drugs cause… like having an accident whilst drunk or stopping breathing after taking heroin or sniffing glue.If you know someone who needs to talk about drugs tell them to talk to their parent or carer, or go to the school nurse or a youth worker. You can also find out lots of information on the internet at www.talktofrank.com Nigel☺

	Soph said "Thanks nigel" That’s ok Soph ...enjoy and I hope the links helped...Nigel ☺

	Soph asked "I get bored of the same websites can you give me some new and funky ones? PLEASE!!" Hi Soph. Thanks for the email...I guess you like this site since you have visited to ask a question ... I guess it depends what you are into. Maybe you could check out www.youthinformation.com - the site has got lots of information about a whole range of different interests. Have a look and see what you think, there are also links to other safe websites. I''ve got to say though a tried and trusted site that I like is www.bbc.co.uk. Let me know how you get on!! Nigel ☺

	Stewart asked..."Im in love with my teacher what can i do?" Hi Stewart...don't worry lots of students have developed crushes on their teachers... and teacher crushes are harmless as long as you don't take them too seriously…teachers are aware that students can develop crushes …… …my advice is not to do anything as your teacher most likely won't have the same feelings. Nigel ☺

	Leonie asked "i think iam pregnant what should i do?" Hello Leonie Thank you for contacting me with this ...you could try talking to your parents or carers and seek their support about this; remember they were all young once. I am sure they would want to be able to advise and support you... also you could go to your doctor for a pregnancy test, or try a family planning clinic, local teen clinic or young people’s sexual health drop-in. They offer free walk in pregnancy testing and want to help you not judge you. In Hull you could go to 1st floor Conifer House, 32-36 Prospect Street or The Warren on Queen’s Dock Chambers or Purple House on Preston Road... Nigel ☺ Lauren asked "im bisexual and i used to fancie a girl in my class she knows but i still cant stop liking her what can i do?" Hello Lauren Thanks for the email... take your time don’t rush with your feelings... but eventually your feelings will lessen it just takes time....and maybe talk with your friends or family they can be a great support at times like this... Nigel ☺

	Jake asked "Why has the city got such a bad reputation and what is the council doing to change it?!?" Hi Jake Thanks for the email......I am very proud of Hull and I know that as a council we are working with children, young people and adults, all over the city to improve the opportunities and the image of our brilliant city. This is happening by communities, agencies, businesses & organisations working together. ...to promote Hull... Have you heard about MyPlace, which is about having first class places for young people to go…why not visit the home page of this website and voice your views and help us with our bid for monies from the big lottery fund and at the same time you might win an iPod. ...you could also get involved with Hull Youth Council gives young people in Hull a chance to talk about stuff that matters to them by going to one of seven Youth forums across the city. Hull Youth Council - call (01482) 585 297 for more info or send an email to: hullyouthcouncil@hullcc.gov.uk....... There are loads of ideas here about how you can help to make Hull a better place to live in. Find out how to get involved in exciting things that can let you have a say in what happens in Hull like the Youth Forum, Young People's Parliament and Youth Networks. ...Nigel ☺

	Rob asked "Hi i am 15 and my ex girlf has just told me she is pregnant, i dumped her coz she had sex wiv my mate danny. she says she reckons it's mine, Where can i go? I bet it's not mine." Hi Rob The idea of talking to adults about sexual relationships might seem mega embarrassing but try talking to your parents, carer or youth worker maybe about what you have been told… Remember they were all young once. I am sure they will be able to advise and support you. But remember having relationships at your age is complex and having unprotected sex at any time is very risky. Along with the chance of your girlfriend becoming pregnant, there is also the risk of getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI), such as Chlamydia, genital warts, or HIV . So seek some advice about staying safe …. Nigel ☺

	Lydia asked "Hi my friend is putting on wate and the nurse told her. i am trying to help her but i dont know what else to do ? or should i just leave her ? i am stuck nigel!" Hello Lydia Thank you for contacting me... being there as her friend is the most important thing you can do for her and I think it is really important to keep supporting your friend who may feel unhappy and feel that she has no control over this. Perhaps you could suggest to your friend that you both talk with the nurse and her parents. You could even suggest getting involved in activities…why not visit the enjoy life, be healthy, get involved and clued up 4 summer areas of this website …to find things for you and your friend to do…Nigel ☺

	Holly K asked "Hi nigel im really really small and people call me tiny. im got smelly feet and body oudor but deodarant doesant work what should i do i really stink." Hello Holly K There are a whole range of deodorants and creams you can get to try and sort it out but if your problem continues I suggest that you go to see your doctor or school nurse who might be able to help. Try not to worry – as for describing yourself as small …as you deal with these issues I am sure you will gain confidence and your height may stop being too much of an issue for you…Nigel ☺

	Emily asked "Do you help people in schools with dissabilities?" Hi Emily… Yes… part of one of my many responsibilities is to ensure that children and young people with disabilities achieve and enjoy school….at each school we have a person called a special educational needs (SEN) coordinator, who is there to help. If you or a friend does not know who your coordinator speak to your teacher. You could visit the information that I have posted on this website in the achieve area and click on SEN…Nigel ☺

	Holly asked "Hiyaa my names holly i go out wiv a boy called lyndon but i am in love with his best frwind ryan and my own best freind jade but lyndon has no idea !!! i dnt know how to tell all 3 that i am a biosexual and am in love with them all please help me !!!!!!" Hello Holly Thank you placing your trust in me with your question. I think that you need to give yourself some time to choose who you like the best to go out with and to talk to someone regarding your feelings about your sexuality. You could perhaps talk to someone you feel close to in your family or contact a local support group who will be able to offer you lots of support and advice on these and many more matters…you can find them in the be healthy area of this site… Nigel ☺

	Holly asked "I smoke but i want 2 stop but every tym i have muny i always seem 2 spend it on cigs wat can i do 2 help me stop?" Hiya Holly Thanks for your email … mmm a bit of a tricky one this … I guess its up to you to decide what you want to do with your money but if you want to give up smoking you can contact the following for advice and support .. www.lifesaver.co.uk or ring the quitline on 0800 002200 or www.gosmokefree.co.uk …. Good luck in quitting !!Nigel ☺

	Ryan asked "How old r u and wat sports do u like?" Hi Ryan Thanks for your email … yep do I like sports !! I particularly enjoy watching football and rugby but enjoy all sports. I think sport is a brilliant way to keep fit and healthy and a great way to make lots of new friends. If you or your friends are interested in playing a sport why don’t you check out the different clubs available by visiting www.hullcc.gov.uk and look for the children and young people’s directory. Nigel ☺

	Key asked "Do you support hull fc or hull kr?" Hi Key What a tough question!! I love watching and taking part in all types of sport especially rugby league. Here in Hull we are very lucky to have two of the very best rugby league teams and when I get chance I enjoy watching both Hull FC and Hull KR (as well as Hull City!!) Nigel ☺

	Liam asked "Hi, i am 13 and i need to know what qualifications i would need like maths english science etc, for being a chef when im older, i am going to go to college after school for further education and then straight to the navy, but thats were im gonna start my cooking career as i would love to cook for the navy, and hopefuly it will carry on from there, thanks Liam" Hi Liam, Thanks for your email and I am very impressed that you know what you would like to do at 13 years old. I have been in touch with Navy Careers, they are based in Saville Street in Hull City Centre and they have told me you do not need any specific qualifications, you just need to pass the naval entry test. You can find out more info by visiting them at royalnavy.mod.uk/careers Good luck! Nigel ☺

	Jade W. asked "Heyy nigel i have a problem im a bit on the fat side btu i dnt admit it nd i call my frends fat nd nw ther in a mood wiv me but its not my fault i called them ralph i was onli tellin the truth :s nd they always have a go at me coz apparently i flirt wiv my best frend ryan.. im mad abwt him but i wnt admit it coz they will call me even mre wat shall ???? !!!!" Hi Jade W. …. It’s not unusual to feel that you look different to other young people. Sadly other young people can poke fun and some times we get defensive and poke fun back….and then this can lead to everything becoming overwhelming…like your feelings for Ryan…I suggest you talk to your family or close friends about your feelings…I am sure they will listen and support you to feel better about yourself….Nigel ☺

	Holly C. said "Hello nigel ive started to pass wind alot and all my friends are making fun of me but i cant help it please find me a solution and they really stink?" Hi Holly C How embarrassing for you …It must make you feel different and sad that your friends are teasing you… Maybe you should discuss this with your doctor and see if they can help you with your problem. Good luck, Nigel ☺

	Kaylee asked "Hello i really fancy this girl at my school but im frightened to tell anyone incase people pick on me because im a lezbian please help me!! Hi Kaylee Telling your parents and friends must appear to be frightening and I know from what you have written that you appear to be worried they will change towards you . So give yourself time and seek the help of your best friend or another member of your family …On our site there are support groups that may help you. Nigel ☺

	Hi i have a really bad thing happening to me i have very bad conserpation and i pass wind every 5 minits and i feel like im going to poo myself . and another thing im a lezbian but i cannot tell no 1 plz help I think it's best to talk and not hold onto things so you don’t feel alone…. give yourself time and seek the help of your family or a close family friend You could contact a local support group such as the ones on this site to help you with this or contact the young people Shout group at the Warren. About your wind….go see you doctor or the chemist who will I am sure help you….Nigel ☺

	Amber asked 'I want to be in the narcotics branch of the Police, what qualifications do I need?' Hello Amber, It’s fantastic that you and that so many young people are emailing me with ideas of what you want to be in the future. In Hull we want to help all our young people gain the right qualifications to achieve what they want in life.So you could talk to your careers advisor at school or visit the Connexions website where you can get useful careers advice. On this site you'll find lots of information www.connexionshumber.co.uk Good luck! ...Nigel ☺

	Alex asked...'Who do you think hull city should sign?' Hi Alex, I think we should try to get Campbell, if not permanent, on loan for another season. We probably need another forward, Nugent and Healy are strong rumours. I'd also like to see a couple of midfielders and defenders as well. Don't be surprised to see a couple of players coming in from Europe either. But it will be down to our excellent chairman Paul Duffen and the great manager Phil Brown…Nigel ☺

	Terri asked 'What music do yer like?' Hi Terri, I like lots of different kinds of music…but it depends on what am I doing to what I listen to…from local music to popular and classical….Nigel ☺

	Rach asked...'Im planning on moving to hull and studying at hull college. Do you have any advice on where i should look for a place to live? Thanks.' Hi Rach, many thanks for the email and I am really delighted that you are considering coming to Hull to study at one of our colleges. You could contact the individual college they may provide you with details of relevant accommodation services. Or you could check out the www.hullcc.gov.uk website which provides good advice for young people moving out of home. This is provided by our Young People Support Service who offer help, advice and support to young people. Nigel ☺

	Charlotte asked "Im a lezbian but i carnt tell any1 what should I do?" Hi Charlotte, I am sorry to hear you think you cannot tell anyone about how you feel. I think it's best to talk and not hold onto things so you don’t feel alone. But give yourself time and seek the help of your family or a close family friend. You could contact a local support group such as the ones on this site to help you with this or contact the young people Shout group at the Warren (01482) 218 115 or the Young People Support Service on (01482) 331 000. They can help you talk to your family or put you in touch with support groups. But remember, you’re not alone and there are lots of people who feel like you do and can help you. On our site there are support groups that may help you also ,… Nigel ☺

	Lewis asked "Hey I Just Droped In To Ask You About Acting, I Am A Really Good Actor And Singer Well Thats What My Family Says At School I Always Go In To Acting Plays And All The Singing Lessons. I Have Won A Couple Of Them. I Wanted To Say Because London Have A Brit School Full Of Music and Drama Lessons I Think Its About Time Hull Built Somethink Like That Where You Can Get Record Deals And Be On BBC Tv Because I Always Think Hulls Boring And Most People Come Here To Get Fame Please." Hi Lewis You sound very busy and I am really pleased to hear that you are doing so well with your acting and singing…I think Hull is an exciting city with lots going on…with our music and drama activities. Make sure you check out the activities and events diary so you don’t miss out on any of the cool things going on like cool exhibitions, concerts, films and theatre performances you and your mates might enjoy…Nigel ☺

	Danny asked "Why have i got such a big nose?? Everyone makes fun of me." Danny…Thanks for your email. It’s not unusual to feel that you look different to other young people. Unfortunately other young people can poke fun. Talk to your family or close friends about your feelings… I'm sure they will make you feel better about yourself….Nigel ☺

	"Come on Hull City" Hello…Hello…yes the Tigers are a great Hull team…and well done Hull City for their promotion to the Premier League. Did you watch the match or were you one of the 100,000 fans celebrating this brilliant achievement in the city on Monday? Visit the contact us section and tell us about it. Nigel ☺

	Holly asked "I Want To Be A Lawyer When I Am Older; What Qualifications Do I Need ???" Hi Holly It's great that you are already thinking about what you want to be…You may want to talk to your teachers or visit the Connexions website where you can get useful careers advice. On this site you'll find lots of information on how to get into acting or become a teacher. Why not visit their site www.connexionshumber.co.uk ...Nigel ☺

	Adam asked "Why do all my mates call me a mongol?" Hi Adam Thanks for the email. It sounds like your mates are teasing you. If it is upsetting you, you can always ask them to stop calling you names. You may want to speak to someone in confidence like your teachers, friends, family who can support you. If you are over 16 years of age you may want to contact the youth counselling people at Stonefield House on (01482) 331 000…Nigel ☺

	Adi asked "Did you watch the man utd game?" Hi Adi, what a game…I thought both Man Utd and Chelsea played well … and I am pleased the European cup is won by an English team…Nigel ☺

	Charlotte asked "I need a poo really bad and i pass wind in class alot but carnt go to toilet please help." Hi Charlotte, this must be so be ever so embarrassing for you. Maybe you should discuss this with your doctor and see if they can help you with your problem. Good luck, Nigel ☺

	Kaylee asked "I'm a lezbian but I cant tell any one please can you help me?? " Hello Kaylee, thank you for trusting me with your question and it is really good that you have been able to email me ... Often your parents will be the most difficult people to tell. So give yourself time and get the help of a friend. Or you could also contact a local support group such as the ones listed on this site to help you with this or contact the young people Shout group at the Warren (01482) 218 115 or the Young People Support Service on: (01482) 331 000. They can help you talk to your family or put you in touch with support groups. But remember you’re not alone and there are lots of people who feel like you do and can help you. On our site there are support groups that may help you also. Nigel ☺

	Danny asked "I am thinking of telling my dad that I am gay - some of may mates already know but i think he will be well disappointed - what I should do?" Thank you for trusting me with your question and it is really good that you have been able to talk to your friends. Remember you are who you are and there’s nothing wrong with that. Often your parents will be the most difficult people to tell. So give yourself time and seek the help of a friend or another member of your family to help tell your dad. You could also contact a local support group such as the ones on this site to help you with this. But remember You’re not alone and there are lots of people who feel like you do and can help you. On our site there are support groups that may help you. Nigel ☺ Sophie asked "Want to be an actress when I'm older, but they don't do drama at my school, how can I get involved in acting?" Have you ever heard of Hull City Arts well they work with Hull’s Youth Development Service who deliver a wide range of arts activities such as drama, music to dance. Young people like you can get involved by taking part in workshops, performing, receiving accreditation or by having a say in what is delivered. All sessions are generally for 13-19 year olds unless otherwise stated and are mega cheap (less than 50p) or free. Why not email them at youthartscore@hullcc.gov.uk for further information and say Nigel told you. Nigel ☺ Kev asked "Do ya support City?" Yes, I am a City fan…I go to their matches and I think it’s fantastic that they are going to Wembley. I also support Stockport County who are in League 2 but they are also in the play offs, so both my teams are doing great. Nigel ☺ Zipporah asked "Will we go public and if we do, will we get famous?" I hope that this website will become very famous and that lots of children and young people will use the website and ask questions that are important to them and to see what is going on in Hull so that they can join in ... Thanks Nigel ☺ Felicia asked "If we do this, do we get to be famous or go on live?" Thank you for your question which as you can see is live on the website now. I hope lots of other young people will use the website just like you and ask lots of questions about things which are important to them ... Thanks Nigel ☺ Amanda asked "What work do you do and is it enjoyable?" I really like my job. Each day is different, but I spend lots of time meeting people about how I can ensure children and young people are happy, safe, learning and having fun in Hull ... Nigel ☺

	Brad asked "Hiya ermmm.... wat shampoo du u use if ya du wat du u think is da best 1 ????" Hi Brad… I use lots if different shampoo…so I don’t really have a favourite…Nigel ☺

	Danny said "I have a big nose and no friends." Danny…Thanks for your email. It’s not unusual to feel that you look different to other young people or that because of this you have no friends. Try and talk to your family or you could talk to a youth counsellor based at the Young People's Support Service at Stonefield House on (01482) 331 000… or why not join in some of the activities that are going on in Hull it’s a great way to meet new people and form friendships. Find out how to get involved in exciting things that can let you have a say in what happens in Hull like the Youth Forum, Young People’s Parliament and Youth Networks. You can find details on the area on the get involved area of this site…take care …Nigel ☺

	Jess asked "Do you support man u?" Hi Jess …. I am a City fan…? I also support Stockport County who are in League 2 so both my teams are doing great. Nigel☺


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